Share with you my happiness - Joy Of Life

Share with you my happiness

Feel I want to share with you things that I found good to have in life.

No one is the same, you are you, you are the captain of your life. You choose to do what you feel good about/right. It’s my experience/sharing, get inspired, and think about what are the things you value.

I have found my life full of joy, love, freedom, abundance, alive(adventure), courage etc. (no wander I like RPG ^_^) and I want to share with you about what I have found. —— it is saying you are great at your current state, when I say “share or improve”, nothing is about you are bad or not good in the current of you, nothing is about the future of you is better than now. NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO !!!!!!! Remember, right now is the best! right now is the power. NOW HERE you can choose to do all different ways to ajust the dirction towards the future! (now here is like no where, funny right? :) )

Guess to share love and joy is always wanderfull! Right? ^_^
If everything I say you already known, that’s great, if you don’t know, that’s nothing wrong. if you disagree—totally your choice.

I try to explain it in a neutral way.
There are something, currently I am doing/done/learning etc.

1. Value time.
2. Experience is more important. (Do what you love and do it often.)
3. Personal Finance (money)
4. Relationship

TIME

I try to reduce things I have to do. I say NO when someone invite me a boring activity , or I just don’t feel like going.
I choose to spent time on things I like to do, people I like to be with. I value my time, cuz I want to build my memory full of joy.

JOY - PEACE

Joy to me, is abundance(not rich). is alive(uncertainty, adventure, danger, opposite of safe / security -save tons of money etc).
Joy to me is love and freedom.
And joy to me is the most important things in my life. a joy of life, not full of stuff and forever safe in a big house of boring life (or at least to me that’s boring. )
they are my principles. everything builds from them.

Time and experience are kind of together.

Time means I look everything in a way that is “life time plan”(whenever I make a decision, it is always look into long turn). cuz time builds experience, I value time= I value experience. experience of playing games, play a b c d e ,, play = joy.

Here are some examples about my decision after those principles:

I seek adventure, and danger, that’s whyI value them more than fancy cars or luxury apartments/houses, expensive hand bag and shoes etc.
If life is security and safe, it’s not alive, it’s dead.
I don’t save money for saving it, I save it for being able to use it in a long turn and doing things full of joy.

When you are at a stage that many of your friends are earning hell of money, will you be the type of ppl chase money and power? do you want to jealousy about that? Or you prefer to do things you love and fun? you understand that it is a different preference from yours?
Well, you know my answer.

I am building my life plan with experience I want to have.

FINANCE/MONEY

It’s a very important subject but some people don’t talk about it.
Money has it’s strength, it is necessary essence to have.
Hate money can not bring me to anywhere. Love money but don’t attach to it. Use it in a long turn way

Passive income

I am learning how to save money and how to get more passive income in the long run.

http://rockstarfinance.com/ is the website I use to get inspiration to encourage myself. and I do find ppl in reality who live with passive income and retire young.

I love interior design and deco, we choose a bit bigger apartment cuz I want to do Airbnb, to rent it out when we travel. We can not do the same like Siswanto. Leave the space empty will also be a waste of money. so we come up a solution by getting more experience on doing so. (principle : doing what I love and do it often in the mean time, trying to earn money from what I love to do) like this I can keep enjoy clean and deco the room,.and rent to ppl to use it when we travel to other place, (look in the long turn we are sure we will be going outside of China more often.)

If you think you need to know it for your long run. ask me anytime.

How I started:

At first I read many books about basic finance, business fundamentals , what is stock/ fund/ , what is short. etc etc. read about some business magazine to see how world is running. passive income, how to generate more money from my interests (not from what others is doing or what is value in the current time frame of the society )

Way of thinking on money!!

Abundance and adventure of life. abundance has a purpose to serve my adventure.The thing is I want money to support me to do what I like to do.
e.g.: Piano, Go carting

Save money!

You can find online, books, classes about many ways of budgeting, be able to make your earnings become more than inflation eats, is still a good skill to have.

Currently:

I see ppl teach online classes to inspire ppl from things they know. (you can teach ppl how to coding)
you can learn so much at your state, and use it to build your life style.You can use your time in many many ways to build your life full of your favorite things.

There is no problems there is only solutions.

It depends on your interest, do you like travel? do you like to work remote? or you have something you like to do that need to stay in one place?
Be creative, I like gardening , I thought gardening need to stay on one land, then I saw ppl use a bus turn into a “garden haven”, grow vegetables inside of it.
Everything is possible, you just need to think about it.

Build your own principles,

Joy to me equals peace, equals adventure, adventure to me is uncertenty and danger bring me alive and I feel full of joy when I see the nature.

Tomorrow will never come. yesterday already gone,

Clock clicks, it tells you past and future time, but you can’t tell what is the time right now. At this moment when you want to say it, it pasted away. right? Fun fact and I love it.
We live in a life time create thought, thought create into matter.
Things builds through our experience.
Money will be gone when we die. but experience we gain will be with us. I care about the experience of creating money in my life. I always ask myself, what experience I want to have in my life?

LOVE / RELATIONSHIP

LOVE is much much more powerful than hate, jealous, angry, mad, etc etc.
The more you build your love of life, the more you understand what kind of person you like to be with.

Although I met kuki in a bar, which sounds like we were party.

That was a raining day, I decided to go to a sports bar,
few reasons why I choose that:

1. eat with good food (I am hungry and I like to eat)
2. they have pool table (play)
3. get inspire from, ( for my own restaurant and bar /business/finance)
4. walking distance (raining day, hard to find taxi, easy)

for kuki, he was going there for a drink with his friend.
This whole choice was made through what we like to do.
then we met in there.
It sounds like fate or destiny , but it is because we choose what we like to do.

To find your true love, the best way is to find out what you love to do and do it as often as you can. A healthy relationship is bring each other joy, make life better and better everyday. Feel growth in between.
You have so much to enjoy before that person come into your life. So much fun to build your lovely life with your favorite things. You can singing, and drawing, doing a lot coding, playing games, have fun with lots of lots of things.
You can start to find your true love by find and build things your love, one day when you forget all this, the right one will walk to you. (I like this way)

I find love inside of me, and I find joy of my life. I have so much joy that I like to share with ppl. I tell you how I find money is important. I like to share.
Be openminded, see the difference of life. and find your life style.

Find things you value in your life and get inspire from ppl around the world and build your own life style.

ALONE - LONELY

Yoga, meditation, helps me to focus on the inside of me.
I try to balance in between the outer world and the inside.
Calm isn’t against adventure, do sports is another way of meditation. (that’s how sports create happiness.)

ASK

As you look at your self in a long life time, ask what would you do if you were alone if no one in your life would gain or lose from what you did, would it change your choice? What would you do for yourself? What bring you peace and joy? What if society did not exist or had absolutely different values- would you still love what you are doing?

What do you value in yourself? How do you want to feel? Stop for a moment and ask, what feelings do I want? Keep this feelings adjust upward to a higher and brighter purpose.
The life gives you an opportunity to live joyfully. What ever you achieve by the time you die ins your.

You learn and grow everything .

Everything you have from here on out can be created at this moment, and it can be created differently, you do not need to know specifically what you will do today or the next day. you can start by believing that you do have a purpose, a concrete purpose, and you can begin by asking it to unfold for you.

What do you value your daily life?

The new home, the finished project, is not the goal of the growth. The proces by which you create these things and the growth it gives you —— the new skills you acquire, the insights, the opening of your heart when you love, the new appreciation for beauty your garden gives you when flowers or crops come up, the feelings you have when you finish a project, the focus and concentration.

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